Swipe a few moves from your man's sexual arsenal to make your next romp more fun and satisfying—for you both. Even though I've been with my husband for 15 years, I don't draw attention to my physical flaws moments before having sex. And yet the man I married will do just that. We'll be cuddling in bed, and he'll push his gut out, rub it lovingly and murmur, "You want a piece of this?" I, on the other hand, am still inclined to make a swift exit after doing the deed—stomach sucked in, of course. In addition to his utter lack of body anxiety, Joe, like many men, has a whole repertoire of beneficial sexual attitudes and behaviors: He'll happily put an argument on hold to have a go at it, and he's never rejected my advances because he needed to do the laundry. If it were women versus men in the sexual Olympics, ladies might take the gold in the foreplay, romance and pace categories, but we may not even place when it comes to body confidence, assertiveness and focus. With a little practice, though, you can master what men excel at in the sack and maximize your pleasure.
